I’m stymied. I went shopping the other day at J. Crew in advance of our vacation. The nice and very helpful sales associate there persuaded me to give over my email address for potential personal shopping services (I know - silly, really). A few hours later I’m just about ready to close the lid when all of a sudden I see this fellow has friended me on Facebook. Yikes. This presents an entirely new situation for me. The people who connect to me on Facebook and who I don’t know well are usually work-related acquaintances, and I refer them over to my Linked In profile with hardly a thought. But what about this nice young man??